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Photo Hunt- Theme: Architecture

by Toni

For today’s theme:  a couple of pictures from my childhood.  This is the house I grew up in (mostly).  Looks huge doesn’t it?  I remember driving up to it for the first time and thinking, “We’re going to live here!?  It’s a mansion!” Technically speaking, while it was large, it was not a mansion.  It was an old, rambling, farmhouse … with one, count ‘em it, one bathroom.  But you don’t think about that sort of thing when you’re four.  That’s me, by the way… the short one in the first picture and sporting a way, too short yellow dress in the second. 

I pulled these pictures from some old albums in order to send them to the current owners.  They are making considerable changes to the house (probably adding another bathroom) and were curious about its history.  To be honest I’d like to know a bit more about its history too.  I know my dad grew up there.  He even slept in the same room I did.  My grandfather farmed the land surrounding the house just as we my parents did when we lived there.  And I know it was a great place to grow up.  I guess that’s enough.

 

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Behold the Duck(s)

by Toni

We enjoyed Storytime at the library yesterday and it was ducky.  No, really!  The theme was ducks and started off with a poem by Ogden Nash.  I couldn’t help but smile.  There is a story in my family from my dad’s grade school days.  He and his classmates were each to memorize a poem to recite before the class. My father, ever the practical, get ‘er done sort chose a short and to the point piece.  The same Nash poem from storytime.

 

The Duck

Behold the duck.
It does not cluck.
A cluck it lacks.
It quacks.
It is specially fond
Of a puddle or pond.
When it dines or sups,
It bottoms ups.

 

(Below) Princess Duck & her trusty sidekick the Quack Quack Kid.


Photo Hunters – Theme: Broken

by Toni

Today’s pictures come courtesy of my father, a long-haul flatbed trucker.  They are from a multiple car pile-up he witnessed few winters ago.  His was the first truck not involved and as much as I admire my father’s skill as a driver I know that only a miracle stopped his truck inches before it slammed into the motorist in front of him.  Obviously, the vehicles involved are “broken” but I wonder too about the lives affected that day.  My father spent hours along with rescue workers and other witnesses clearing wreckage and helping the injured.  There was at least one fatality that we know of.  How many other lives were unexepectedly shattered that day?  And how many were saved, like my father, by miracles big and small?

The young, lady driver of the white car above had stepped out of it only moments before and made her way to the top of the hill to survey the damage.

A look at the tangle

A little perspective on the enormity of the situation.  Every vehicle you see except the ambulance on the right was involved.

 

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Chicken Chatter

by Toni

Can I just share the cutest, little thing I found in the chicken coop?

The one on the left is a “normal” Araucana egg and the one on the right … not so normal.  And yes, I’m sure it’s not a robin egg.

Speaking of chickens, specifically Auracana’s, I have one (Let’s call her Hazel) that just insists on flying the fence.  We have started free-ranging our flock on some property behind their run.  I used some lattice to create a not so bad looking way for them to get to the new grazing ground which was a MUCH better solution than allowing them to roam about the yard (too many undesirables left lying around).  At least we thought it was a better solution.  Hazel either doesn’t agree or she’s a loner because every morning she flies out and spends the day wandering the yard in chicken solitude.  I suppose I will have to clip her wings to keep her in.  I’m hesitant though because she’s pretty to look at (the other chickens are mostly out of sight) and it’s funny to watch her follow the children around like a puppy.  She even occasionally follows the dog around like a puppy.  Strange but cute.

In other chicken news I am wondering about dressing out our own hens when their laying days are over.  This poem was one of the best descriptions of the process I could find.  While it doesn’t sound hard in the logistical sense  I still remember visiting Aunt Helen’s House of Poulty Purgatory.  Therein existed a certain smell one never forgets.  This may be where I draw the line on simple living.


"B" is for Blankie

by Toni

Brother has a blue blanket his Oma knit when he was born.  She made one for Sister’s birth too – pink.  Each was one of a dozen my children received.  Nothing special about a blanket, right?  Well… I am convinced Oma did something to those blankets for as time went by they changed.  They began to have special powers.    First, I noticed that a babe wrapped cozy inside would almost immediately fall asleep.  This continued even as the children grew.  Then these same blankets started participating in play time.  Capes, magic carpets, tents – they could turn into more things than Diego’s Rescue Pack.  And somewhere between, they gained the power to dry tears.  No, not just remove the wetness – any old piece of cloth can do that.  They dried the tears at the source.  Whatever the problem was, a quick snuggle would cure it.  At the height of the blankies’ power we never dared go on a trip without them.  Panic set in if nighttime fell and they were lost.  And wash day was most dreaded.

Fast forward to today.  I am taking a load of laundry upstairs and pause to tell Brother where I’m going.  “Oh, oh, “ he says, “Mine Bankie waundry too.”   You could have knocked me over with a feather.  Are we thinking of the same blanket here?   Did my Linus just say what I think he did?  A little clarification just to be sure then to the washer we went.  Brother helped with all the clothes then unceremoniously tossed Bankie in too.

Part of me knows not to read too much into this.  That blue blanket has a long life yet.  Sister still sleeps with hers.  But another part of me sees an ending.   The end of a time when such simple magic can solve anything.


A Long Story with a Little Something Useful

by Toni

Brother is currently in that delightful transition period known as “the end of naptime.”  Because of this there have been more nap-less days of late and interestingly enough, more restless nights.  As if not having a bit of unwind time midday allows him to acquire more stimulation than one night of dreaming can dissipate.  I have tried putting him to bed earlier but it is difficult to explain to one with such limited vocabulary why Sister is allowed to “play” and he is not.  Conversely, it is not a little unfair to make her bedtime earlier because of a grumpy Brother.  So it is that everyone under 6 goes to bed at once.  Except tonight when Sister and I returned from washing her hair (trauma story for another day) to find Brother already sound asleep on the couch.  Snuggly wrapped within his bathtime towel and blankie I might have been content to “let sleeping dogs lie” except for the fact that he was buck naked underneath.  Oh, bother.  Let me skip the suspense and tell you we did get a diaper on him… before anything unpleasant happpened.  But that’s not the part I wanted to share.  The story is how we moved him and how it reminded me of the countless times we’d done the same in his infancy.  Like many infants Brother liked to fall asleep in motion.  Like many parents we grew exhausted providing said ‘motion.’  So we bought a swing and there was many a night that baby Brother slept nestled in that tireless cradle… until the night he fell out.  I know, I know… poor form; bad, bad parenting … What can I say, you let a lot of things slide when you’re tired – particularly things that work.  Anyway, after that we developed the hammock method of transport.  Here’s how it works.

  1. Lay a blanket in the swing so it looks like a diamond from the front.
  2. Settle baby in the swing
  3. Wait for baby to completely doze off.
  4. Holding the four corners of the blanket and carefully move baby anywhere you want him.
  5. We didn’t worry about this step because we all share a bed but if you use a crib, consider tucking the edges of the blanket under the mattress to keep baby from getting rolled up in it.

Photo Hunters – Theme: Memory

by Toni

In case you haven’t noticed, I love taking photographs.  Will wants to get a camcorder and while I agree there are some things best captured by video for the most part I am a “picture is worth a thousand words” kind of person.  Not only do I enjoy taking my own pictures I like looking at other people’s perspectives as well.  Because of that (and because I frequently have nothing of note to write about on Saturdays)  I’ve decided to participate in the Photo Hunters weekly meme. 

 

Just one look at this week’s theme and I knew exactly what picture to use. I scoured through boxes and albums of pre-digital photos. I had almost given up but then – success! It’s a favorite story told in my family of the time our dog, Goober, won the title of “Ugliest Dog in Ellis County.” Goober was a poohuahua (poodle/chihuahua) and while I’m not saying the award was undeserved, part of me must believe the handler’s outfit contributed to the effect. …. that’s me by the way.

In scouring those albums though I came across a much more important memory.  This is my mom.  And this is how I remember waking up to her every morning (no, not with her hand in front  of her face :) ) sitting in her pajamas with coffee and a Bible, getting in a little quiet time before starting the business of the day.  I don’t know if she did this every day but often enough to have made an impression on me.  Often enough that it was clear where her faith ranked on the priority list.  And that makes me think of my children and what impressions I am creating.  Memories are more than just “remember when’s”.   They are creations of the Now and shapers of What Will Be.  Create them carefully.  Pay attention to the details.  And in this way may your rememberings be sweet. 


"I’m Scared"

by Toni

Will & Sister are out of town visiting relatives so the family bed has been half empty these past two days.  Which may explain why the ever courageous Brother who lay quietly for several minutes after being tucked in finally broke the silence with, “Mama, I scared.”  On the other hand it may just be a habit he picked up from Sister.  She frequently (it seems) uses the “I’m scared” tactic to prolong wakefulness.  I am not certain of the purposefulness of this – she does have an active imagination and she can be a bit of a coward so maybe she really is scared.  I am telling all this to my parents and the conversation strays to our own nighttime childhood thoughts.  Papa reveals, “I used to lay in bed and listen to the wolves.  I was sure they could come up on the roof and in through my second floor window so when I heard them howling I would sneak to the window and peak over the sill just to be sure they weren’t coming.”  Listening to his story reminds me of the nights I slept in that very same second floor room.  There was a small hole in the floor near the head of the bed.  This was no problem during the day but at night after logic was already slumbering I became convinced that if the corner of my bed slipped into that hole it would cause a chain reaction whereby the whole bed would fall through to the living room below. 

These thoughts seem so foolish now but it occurs to me that while I no longer fear the floor caving in or monsters under the bed I do sometimes at night let my mind consider the possibility of not having enough money to buy food or that something terrible might happen to somone I love or worst of all, that I might grow old alone.  It is then that I must stop to wake up Logic and call in my old friend Faith.  None of these things are likely to happen but even if they should I know a Hope that never fails.

The LORD himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; Do not be discouraged.—Deuteronomy 31:8


Advent Stockings 14 & 15

by Toni

Oops, we’re falling behind on the stocking thing…

Advent14#14 “Create a candle wax painting of the star that led the wise men to Jesus.”  We didn’t ever quite capture the star but we had a good time first pouring hot wax on our paper in some random design then painting over the wax with watercolor.  And since we had hot wax available we talked about letters and how people used to seal them with wax.  Then we sealed some of our own imaginary invitations.  Brother, obviously too young to be using hot wax seemed content to blow our candles out for us and make charcoal drawings with leftover (cooled) match stubs.

Advent14#15 “Color something together.”  We decided to skip this one in favor of making Sister a new piggy bank instead.  She has been racking up quite a stash of cash lately but has been keeping it in a plastic baggy.  Grandma started this saving business a couple of months ago by giving each of the grandkids a memory verse and telling them when they could say it perfectly she would not only give them a quarter but also a dog bank to keep it in.  Sister was so proud the day she got hers.  She couldn’t help playing with it and wanted to take it everywhere.  Rushed little hands holding too many things and ”Crash!”  The poor little dog never had a chance.  The new bank is fashioned from an old peanut can covered in pretty paper.  Simple and relatively unbreakable.


Litttle Kids, Big Boots

by Toni

Is there any child who hasn’t at one time or another (if not many times) stumbled about in an adult’s shoes?  I’m not certain what the thrill of this is but that thrill is multiplied ten fold when the shoes are boots.  Stomp, stomp, stomp.  Little legs almost consumed by leather.  I am reminded this evening of when, as a child, I stood on a chair in my dad’s boots as he shined them.  His boot brush moving so swift and strong that it took all my concentration just to stay upright.  It was an important job to be sure and I took it very seriously but when the job was done – stomp, stomp, stomp. 

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